REINVENT YOUR FUTURE

Session Description 

Coaching presence is about being fully engaged, grounded, and responsive in the moment. This session helps students cultivate awareness, flexibility, and authentic connection. Presence allows coaches to adapt fluidly, attune deeply, and hold space for transformation.

TODAY'S TAKEAWAYS
  • Practice mindfulness and being fully “with” the client.
  • Focus on curiosity over judgment or fixing
  • Notice the dance between structure & flow.
  • Notice and manage your internal distractions.

Session Overview

Learning Activities

Review - Insights & questions from last week
Share your 3 coaching scenarios
Discuss 12 Ways to demonstrate coaching presence
Demonstrate a typical coaching conversation
Tour webpages, resources & assignments

Learning Concepts & Practices

The client is the expert; coaches draw out their wisdom
Clients & coaches co-create a safe, transformative environment
Coaches follow the client's lead; stay in their lane
Coaches make the client feel valued and safe
Pay attention to when you seek to lead or give advice

Demonstrations & Assignments

Coaching Demonstration: Focus (reinvention)
Practice being a coach, client & observer
List what needs to happen before, during & after
Gather feedback from coach, client & observer
Highlight session links, resources & assignments

SESSION 104 | TRAINING DOCS & SLIDES

KEY POINTS

1 | Develop a pre-session coaching routine
2 | Develop a curious mindset
3 | Practice "dancing with the client"
4 | Share observations & affirmations
5 | Embrace short questions; silence
6 | Trust your gut; trust the process

QUESTIONS

1 | How do you manage your "baggage?"
2 | How might you affirm the client?
3 | When & where might you share observations?

KEY POINTS

1 | Coaching names the goal & the gap
2 | Coaches disrupt self-limitations
3 | Nudge people toward transformation
4 | Help clients name "what's present"

QUESTIONS

1 | What do YOU need to set aside?
2 | What does your CLIENT need to set aside?
3 | When do you see clients not letting go?

KEY POINTS

1 | Coaches help clients "reframe"
2 | Coaches help clients see "what's present"
3 | Coach help clients learn & unlearn
4 | Coaches pay attention, using all senses

QUESTIONS

1 | What assumptions are being surfaced?
2 | Which attitudes need shifting?
3 | What approaches have been tried?
4 | Which actions may nudge them forward?

KEY POINTS

1 | Coaches are partners/co-creators
2 | Coaches disrupt norms & assumptions
3 | Coaches help clients become inspired
4 | Coaches look for roadblocks & potential 

QUESTIONS

1 | What are indicators of client impact?
2 | What are indicators your growth?

KEY POINTS

1 | Coaches help clients achieve goals quicker
2 | Coaches spark continuous action/reflection
3 | Coaches help clients build capacities
4 | Clients help clients prepare for the journey

QUESTIONS

1 | How do you help clients identify their needs?
2 | How can you draw out a clients wisdom?

KEY POINTS

1 | The 3 agreements -> clarity & accountability
2 | The overarching agreement
3 | The session agreement
4 | The written agreement

QUESTIONS

1 | How do you know if there's a good fit?
2 | What are some coaching "red flags?"
3 | Are you a good fit for each other?

KEY POINTS

1 | Agreements lead to "no surprises"
2 | Norms clarify roles & responsibilities
3 | Written agreements increase intentionality

QUESTIONS

1 | What do clients need to know?
2 | What do coaches need to know?
3 | Are you the right coach for this client?

KEY POINTS

1 | Pictures are powerful
2 | Describe the experience
3 | Spark dreaming w/out directing

APPLICATION

1 | When do you dream big?
2 | Do your limitations limit others?
3 | Consider "think, do & feel"

COACHING FLOW

1 | Tune in to what's most important
2 | Tune in to visual cues
3 | Tune in to what's not said
4 | Tune in to tone & pace of voice
5 | Tune in to self-limitations
6 | Tune in to possibilities & potential
7 | Tune in to your presence/lack of presence

QUESTIONS

1 | What prevents you from being present?
2 | What prevents your client from being present?
3 | How can you prevent not being present?

OBSERVATIONS

1 | Share a key learning or insight
2 | Name a skill/technique to model
3 | Ask a question

NEXT STEPS

1 | Complete the feedback/assignment form
2 | Review pre-work for next session
3 | Decide where you'll keep our class notes

SESSION 104 | Student Feedback & Assignments 

ASSIGNMENT 1 | Read Breakthrough Coaching Blog (Part 1) - share 3 insights

ASSIGNMENT 2 | List questions you'd ask to invite a person into a coaching conversation

PRE-WORK |  Share a series of 3 coaching scenarios you'd like to be coached on

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